‘Consider your source, choose your words wisely’

Rob Mortimore
Posted 1/20/21

Words hurt.

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‘Consider your source, choose your words wisely’

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Words hurt. 

“Words are the single most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble.” – Dr. Hyder Zahed

Where has accountability for the written or spoken word gone? It seems in today’s America, there are no consequences for passing misinformation or flat out lies, from national to local politics, social media, even some so-called news organizations and certainly individuals.

Each word we use can have a colossal impact. Words influence others and build relationships at work and personally. They can tear down relationships. Simply put, language holds massive, colossal power to manifest change, whether it’s good or bad, so choose them (and your friends) wisely. 

When we allow inaccurate news or information to continue to be spread, and thus participate, the effects can be catastrophic. You see, when news organizations, or individuals, are allowed to spew the misinformation and gain more recognition by clicks, likes or self-gratification, they will continue to peddle more and more misinformation. 

Considering the force of the words we use, we must discipline ourselves to speak in a way that conveys respect, gentleness and humility. One of the clearest signs of a moral life is right speech. Perfecting our speech is one of the keystones of mature people. Before speaking take a few moments to contemplate what you will say and how you will say it; while considering the impact they will have on the listeners. 

Many people are compelled to give voice to any passing feeling, thought or impression they have. They randomly dump the contents of their mind without regard to the significance of what they are saying. When we talk about trivial matters as in gossiping about others, our attention is wasted on trivialities. 

Some of us are in the habit of using the same negative words over and over again out of habit. The problem is that the more we hear, read, or speak a word or phrase, the more power it has over us. This is because the brain uses repetition to learn, searching for patterns and consistency as a way to make sense of the world around us. Only after being burned a few times can we understand that fire is always hot.

Be kind. 

Speak words of inspiration, enthusiasm and encouragement to all. 

Be respectful. 

Consider your source and look at it through the eyes of your children, your parents, spouse, siblings and family.